tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8385392963347857134.post8417751128575044732..comments2023-10-23T09:51:37.441-05:00Comments on Blog of Pro-Porn Activism: ....And Just In Case You Are Tired Of It, Still MORE From NPNh...Renegade Evolutionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17905949172886730262noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8385392963347857134.post-51607301195359068212008-05-07T23:50:00.000-05:002008-05-07T23:50:00.000-05:00And on the wrong place thing:.............BaniWow,...And on the wrong place thing:<BR/><BR/>.............<BR/>Bani<BR/><BR/>Wow, check out this site called <A HREF="www.fluc.com" REL="nofollow">www.fluc.com</A><BR/>. Free SMS and free mobile ads!! Its fantasticAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8385392963347857134.post-52137513163386868762007-07-13T14:45:00.000-05:002007-07-13T14:45:00.000-05:00Oh, and much of the cunnilingus I've seen in the p...Oh, and much of the cunnilingus I've seen in the porn I've seen goes beyond "delicate lapping", though, yes, I do realize, from watched cunnilingus in real life, you usually can't see what's going on. Same with PIV intercourse.<BR/><BR/>Obviously, porn needs a certain amount of "poetic license" when it comes to presenting sex.iacbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08267608319896053702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8385392963347857134.post-659790185288675372007-07-13T14:34:00.000-05:002007-07-13T14:34:00.000-05:00Well, my views on how much safety is enough and ho...Well, my views on how much safety is enough and how much s overkill –<BR/><BR/>I guess I never "got religion" when it comes to the total latex thing, beyond simple condom use.<BR/><BR/>I personally don't think cunnilingus with any kind of barrier looks at all good visually, nor do latex gloves, unless you happen to have a medical fetish. (I have the very opposite of a medical fetish, personally.) It would be one thing if there were a case that could be made that this really blocks an important vector for STIs, but I'm not hugely convinced – especially if they're testing for a broad panel of STIs to begin with. Asking for total latex in porn – not just condoms, but latex for everything – strikes me as serious overkill. If you were to impliment such strict safety guidelines, wet kissing would be pretty much out too, since that isn't exactly 100% risk-of-infection free either.<BR/><BR/>Near universal condom use I could see, because penetration and semen are pretty major vectors of HIV and other STDs, and is something that shouldn't be risked except by people who are already "body fluid monogamous". If two people are already BFM, I have no problem filming them barebacking, though, and could give a damn if anybody thinks that sends the wrong "message".iacbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08267608319896053702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8385392963347857134.post-13243199713267541052007-07-12T23:28:00.000-05:002007-07-12T23:28:00.000-05:00Glove dam all the way, baby.Take a rubber glove. C...Glove dam all the way, baby.<BR/><BR/>Take a rubber glove. Cut off the four fingers, and cut down the side from the pinky to the wrist. Open it up. <BR/><BR/>You now have not only a cheap, easy to find and reasonably thin dam, but one that you can safely penetrate with using the remaining thumb area.<BR/><BR/>I should really put that up on my blog...hexyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12189529529520498603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8385392963347857134.post-73397436570097182632007-07-12T12:10:00.000-05:002007-07-12T12:10:00.000-05:00yeah, trin brings up a point: it's pretty damn har...yeah, trin brings up a point: it's pretty damn hard to film cunnilingus in a way in which you're actually -seeing- what's really going on; hence the whole fakey-fakey, stick one's tongue all the way out and delicately lap.<BR/><BR/>it's like--if you've got your face buried in there anyway, unless you have -really- tiny cameras, you're not gonna be able to see the vulva during the Act.<BR/><BR/>also--actual "dental dams" (as in, the kind that are actually used in dentistry) are thick and unwieldy and weird; but one can use and more people do these days, say, cling film or special thin sheets of latex specifically designed for such, and they're--well, it can be an -interesting- visual effect. probably way more fun for latex/clear plastic fetishists than others, but--hell, aren't most of the industry standards based on fetishes, albeit more common ones? and with all due respect for those who like them, but that's what they are: fetishes (i've got my own): the body types preferred, the "money shot," DP, ATM, "snowballing," etc. etc...belledame222https://www.blogger.com/profile/13947289856453172848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8385392963347857134.post-84547900041674524062007-07-12T09:56:00.000-05:002007-07-12T09:56:00.000-05:00Which is also interesting to me because, well... I...Which is also interesting to me because, well... I've not had that many BJs from dykes but like I said there is that sort of "this should look pretty, that's paramount" when I see them trading technique<BR/><BR/>where, I think, with actual men they get much quicker that I don't want them to waste time looking pretty, because (most likely) they're doing what they'd want someone to be doing to them, which is less about how it looks and more about how it feels.<BR/><BR/>(Not that it doesn't look cool or that that's not arousing, for me or for men -- I'm sure it is for men too, they've told me so! It's just that that's not the point. For me anyway.)Trinityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06846032433424879965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8385392963347857134.post-46905650715103264452007-07-12T09:50:00.000-05:002007-07-12T09:50:00.000-05:00And on the wrong place thing:One of the few times ...And on the wrong place thing:<BR/><BR/>One of the few times in my life I can honestly say I had horrible sex was, basically, all about this "look" thing.<BR/><BR/>There are some dykes who think that giving a strap-on BJ is about visuals. I've heard them talking about technique: all sorts of little cute stuff so the top can look at them and enjoy the view.<BR/><BR/>Okay, that's... um, logical, I *guess*... yeah, there's far less sensation coming from an unattached non-flesh appendage.<BR/><BR/>So when this woman I liked told me she was really good at this, I thought hey, sounds nice...<BR/><BR/>Um. Staring at someone showing off her tongue parlor tricks WHEN YOU REALLY WANT TO FUCK HER FACE?<BR/><BR/>Most boring shit there ever was.Trinityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06846032433424879965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8385392963347857134.post-67007863755714832672007-07-12T09:42:00.000-05:002007-07-12T09:42:00.000-05:00"Second, as an afficianado of this kind of porn, d..."Second, as an afficianado of this kind of porn, dental dams largely kill what's visually arousing about this kind of pornography, hence, I can't see it as being very well received."<BR/><BR/>You have to be kidding, IACB -- watching people put their tongues in the wrong places isn't arousing at all. :)<BR/><BR/>I much prefer porn wherein I often can't see the woman's vulva -- because I know it's far, far more likely she's actually fully enjoying it. Which means, to me, that it actually doesn't matter at all to me if there's a dam or not. Actually, the one scene I have seen where a dam *was* used was one of the most arousing I've ever seen, because that interaction meant "This is about fun and I care about your safety, not just that camera over there."<BR/><BR/>As far as women not wanting to use dams -- I'd have a lot more sex with them if it weren't the case that so many consider safe sex weird.<BR/><BR/>While seeing vulvas is always nice, it's much more arousing to me to see something that looks like sex. If I want to simply look at a vulva, porn gives one plenty of opportunities to do that too.<BR/><BR/>It's the difference between, to put it in terms that might make more direct sense to you, an actual blowjob and "stick your tongue out for the camera, honey..."Trinityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06846032433424879965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8385392963347857134.post-89919115153108923752007-07-12T02:40:00.000-05:002007-07-12T02:40:00.000-05:00"iacb; i think the cooling off period would be an ...<I>"iacb; i think the cooling off period would be an excellent idea specifically for first timers..."</I><BR/><BR/>In that context, it would be a good idea. For somebody who's a "veteran" in the industry, a cooling off period that delayed pay would merely be burdensome. But for somebody just getting into it, not a bad idea.iacbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08267608319896053702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8385392963347857134.post-58153295627082288032007-07-11T23:46:00.000-05:002007-07-11T23:46:00.000-05:00iacb; i think the cooling off period would be an ...iacb; i think the cooling off period would be an excellent idea specifically for first timers...Renegade Evolutionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17905949172886730262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8385392963347857134.post-16867811563527475132007-07-11T23:45:00.000-05:002007-07-11T23:45:00.000-05:00yep, and 21 is merely my opinion as well....yep, and 21 is merely my opinion as well....Renegade Evolutionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17905949172886730262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8385392963347857134.post-70518776159911986042007-07-11T23:21:00.000-05:002007-07-11T23:21:00.000-05:00Does "other protective devices" include mandatory ...Does "other protective devices" include mandatory dental dams for lesbian oral sex scenes? I can't see that going over too well. First, to the best of my knowledge, dental dams aren't widely used among lesbians and bisexual women in real life because woman-to-woman oral sex simply isn't a major route of STD transmission. Second, as an afficianado of this kind of porn, dental dams largely kill what's visually arousing about this kind of pornography, hence, I can't see it as being very well received.<BR/><BR/>As for "cooling off" periods, I think its a good idea in theory. In practice, a big part of the appeal of sex work <I>according to sex workers</I> is that its instant pay. You can decide to work on very short notice and have money immediately – a cooling off period, while introducing a higher level of safety, also interferes with this.<BR/><BR/>The 21 AOC for porn – unneeded, moral-panicky stuff – a lot of supporters of this move sound like they think the 18 age of consent for sex in general is too low.iacbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08267608319896053702noreply@blogger.com